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Kindness Meditation Practice by Jack Kornfield

The practice of loving-kindness is a specific meditation practice that can be used both to develop concentration and to develop the quality of kindness. The following instructions are taken from"A Path With Heart" by Jack Kornfield, (Bantham Books 1993) but it is also possible to recite to oneself the Buddha's discourse on kindness.


"Begin by repeating the following phrases over and over for 15-20 minutes once or twice daily in a quite place for several months. At first this meditation may feel mechanical or awkward or even bring up the opposite  feelings of irritation and anger. If this happens, itis especially important to be patient and kind toward yourself, allowing whatever  arises to be received in a spirit of friendliness and kind affection. In its own time, even in the face of inner difficulties, loving- kindness will develop."

"Sit in a comfortable fashion. Let your body relax and be at rest. As best you can, let your mind be quiet, letting go of plans and preoccupations. Then begin to recite inwardly the following phrases directed to yourself. You begin with yourself because without loving yourself it is  almost impossible to love others."

May I be filled with loving-kindess

May I be well

May I be peaceful and at ease

May I be happy

"As you say the phrases, you may also wish to use the image from the Buddha's instructions: picture yourself as a young and beloved child, or sense yourself as you are now, held in the heart of loving-kindness. Repeat the phrases again and again, letting the feelings permeate your body and mind."

"Practice this meditation repeatedly for a number of weeks until the sense of loving-kindness for yourself grows."

"When you feel ready, in the same meditation period you can gradually expand the focus of your loving-kindness to include others. After yourself, choose a benefactor, someone in your life who has truly cared for you.  Picture them and carefully recie the same phrases: May he/she be filled with loving- kindness and so forth. When loving-kindess for your  benefactor has developed, begin to include other people you love in the  meditation, picturing them and reciting the same phrases, evoking a sense of loving-kindness ofor them."

"After this, you can gradually begin to include others: friends, community members, neighbours, people everywhere, animals, the whole earth, and all beings. Then you can even experiment with including the most  difficult poeple in your life, wishing that they, too, be filled with  loving-kindess and peace. With some practice a steady sense of loving-kindness can develop and in the course of 15 or 20 minutes you  will be able to include many beings in your meditation, moving from  yourself, to a benefactor and loved ones, to all beings everywhere."

"Then you can learn to practice it anywhere. You can use this meditation in  traffic jams, in buses and airplanes, in doctors' waiting rooms, in a  thousand other circumstances. As you silently practice this loving-kindness meditation among people, you will immediately feel a  wonderful connection with them -- the power of loving-kindness. It will calm your life and keep you connected to your heart."

Used with the kind permission of the author and meditation teacher Jack  Kornfield; from the book ‘A Path With Heart’ published by Rider &  Co; ISBN-10: 0712657800 

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